Discernment: How do you choose where you want to go?
There can be several influencing factors that can either consciously or subconsciously guide where you choose to go, however there needs to be a clear distinction of what is prompting you to choose one location over another: is it genuine spiritual guidance, or is it fear and selfish ambition?
While God does take into account your strengths, weaknesses, and preferences, He also works in such glorious ways where the outcomes that maximally glorify Himself and sanctify us are the very pathways that we would never have selected by our own volition.
Participation in the Great Commission, by nature, is the denial of self, choosing to follow and glorify Christ in any location that He calls you to. The desire for obedience towards God must supersede the desire for personal gratification. The desire to see all tribes, nations, and tongues come to rejoice alongside us in eternity must be greater than our desire for comfort.