How can I be a faithful host?
Ask God to give you a heart that genuinely loves international students and desires to bring them to Him. Ask them about school, their major, and how they are adjusting to life here. If you are worried that you will not know what to talk about, ask God to give you wisdom and opportunities for meaningful conversations.
Many international students who live on campus do not have a car, so even getting groceries can be difficult. A practical way to welcome them is to drive them to the grocery store or help them run errands. Small acts of kindness can communicate God’s love in powerful ways and open doors to Gospel conversations.
One of the best things you can do is help your intentional friends become part of a Christian community. Whether they are a believer or not, invite them to join you for a meal, a game night, or another casual gathering with your Christian friends. For further reading on how to welcome internationals, check out Nicole Carr’s article, Sharing the Gospel in Collective Communities. You could bring them to your church event and plug them into church community. As they begin building relationships, invite them to church events and, eventually, to a Sunday service. It is much easier for someone to visit a church when they already know people there who genuinely care about them.
I experienced this kind of hospitality during college. Without a car, it took me an hour and a half to get to church by public transportation. Then a young family from church invited me to their home for a meal. Their kindness didn’t stop there. They soon welcomed me to stay with them on weekends so I wouldn’t have to make the long trip early Sunday morning. It grew into a lifelong friendship. They remain some of my closest friends, and I am still deeply grateful for their hospitality and care for me during a difficult season of my life.
This is why I encourage you to befriend both believing international students and those who do not yet know Christ. Many of them are coming from countries with little to no access to the Gospel. Who knows? You might be the first American they meet who treats them with genuine kindness after they arrive in the States. That first impression will have a lasting impact on them.
If they know you are a Christian, they will learn something about the God we serve through our actions. As we welcome international students into our homes and lives, God also provides opportunity to share the Good News about Jesus. We pray that God will use our hospitality or friendship to draw someone to Him. As Jesus said, “there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous people who have no need of repentance” (Luke 15:7).
God works in miraculous way. He simply asks us to go and meet people where they are.