Consult With Those Who Know You Best
As you regularly talk with God, talk with others as well. It is imperative to seek the wisdom of others when making major life decisions. We all need people in our lives who know us well and can be honest with us.
As you are considering where to serve, invite these people into the process. If they know you well and want your best, they can help you discern whether a particular role or location is a good fit.
This is why being an involved member of a healthy church is crucial. Your church should be intimately involved in this process. They have seen your life up close. They know your strengths and weaknesses. They know your passions and gifts. Because of this, they can offer a unique and valuable perspective.
Our church was indispensable to us during this time.
Break Down Barriers to Going
Several common barriers prevent many from going to the mission field.
Student debt is one of the most common obstacles for people at this stage of life. If that is your situation, be aggressive and do whatever you can to pay it off as quickly as possible.
Unrepentant sin is another major barrier. Pornography is a rampant sin problem that should be addressed quickly, whether you are going to the mission field or not. Unfortunately, pornography addiction prevents many from serving.
For others, unresolved trauma from the past can become an obstacle. If that is the case for you, invite a loving, biblical counselor to walk with you through the healing process.
One of the most difficult barriers is the reluctance of family members and loved ones to let you go. This can weigh heavily on missionary candidates and sometimes prevent them from going altogether. You must count the cost. Are you willing to put this on the altar? Loneliness is a real challenge for missionaries. Celebrating Christmas in another country far from family is difficult. Being far away from loved ones is never easy.
What barriers to going do you need to address? Address them now. If these issues are not dealt with before you leave, they will only be magnified on the field.
Competencies
What are you good at? How has God gifted you? What are you passionate about?
There is a wide variety of opportunities available for many different skill sets. For example, I once heard of a journeyman who served as a scuba diving instructor in a closed country. He could not enter the country on a missionary visa, but his unique skill opened the door for him to live there, build relationships, and share the gospel with people who had never heard it.
Are you a teacher? Are you a nurse? Gifted in business? Skilled in technology? God has opened doors around the globe for people with these competencies and many others.
Your gifts and passions may be exactly what God intends to use to bring the gospel to an unreached people group.